Tag Archives: Counseling

Arsenic and Old Grace

“Hearts die on the medicine of pride.” You’ve been hurt in a battle of relational conflict. Nothing psychotic or violent or anything, but something genuinely awful has happened with another, and now you’re wounded. You turn to friends, to pastors, … Continue reading

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How Long is My “Enjoy” List?

Just read an excellent blog post by Ed Welch about what it means to “enjoy” something, or more importantly someone. He gives great advice for marriage and friendship, but I was exhorted by where he went at the end. Enjoy. … Continue reading

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Sorry Comforters

As I read through Job, I’m surprised to identify so much with Job’s friends. Not that I would say the same things they do, but that I have a tendency — out of a Petrine “not knowing what else to say” … Continue reading

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Getting the Roots

No one loves pulling weeds, especially not when dad tells you that you have to get the roots too. I’ve found that this is exactly how it is with conflicts. It’s easier to pluck them out at a surface level, … Continue reading

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Paul’s Counseling

Reading 1 Corinthians 7 today and noticed a couple things about how Paul counseled real people who asked his advice on real questions: 1.) Paul is clear about what is directly from the Lord and what is from his own wisdom … Continue reading

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